Bob’s party February 16, 1986

 

 

It was Bob’s day in old Fotomat – non regulation, of course, and quite absurd.

Planning a party for him in his area without his knowing it, is like setting off a bomb and not expecting anybody to notice.

The question is just how much did he know in advance and how much was actually a surprise?

I’ve got a feeling that there is more to this than many people are willing to admit.

He knew, for instance, where the party was scheduled to take place.

We couldn’t hold the event in Passaic without every dirty old man coming over from the go go bars to watch.

But how did Bob know about the stripper the staff hired for the party?

It is not something he could have easily guessed – not with all the born again people involved in planning the party.

To tell you the truth, the whole thing startled me as well – especially Bob’s reaction.

I should not have been. Rumors about Bob have circulated for some time. Chris once claimed she suspected Bob of having AIDS, hinting he might be gay, while others believe he was exactly opposite, calling him a lecherous old man (who was not that old) who stares down the shirts of female employees and is suspected of making obscene phone calls to those employees.

There is evidence to support both arguments.

No one, for instance, has ever seen Bob involved with a woman romantically, and it is well known that he has a hard time dealing with women in or out of the Fotomat setting. He gets uncomfortable when hearing about women’s issues, emotional or professional. Each time he has to confront a woman employee, Bob gets very tense.

Once, he when he had to investigate a woman employee at the Rutherford store, Bob actually vomited blood.

Most of the issues I’ve had with Fotomat have been connected somehow to Bob’s ability to deal with women. Last June, when I got manipulated out of the Hackensack store, I asked Bob to intervene. He told me he would, but when the smoke cleared, it turned out he had not.

During this time, Bob hinted at his sexual habits, when he said he occasionally went to New York to get sex. He did not say if this was with a man or a woman.

In the middle of this, however, he did have at least one serious relationship with a psychotic psychologist (many of them are), driving him to a point where he had to cut it off, only to have her haunt him. But he still aches for her.

He told me he had a serious relationship with another woman last spring which ended with him smashing a phonebooth in Florida when she ended the relationship.

Like many men, Bob tends to be most comfortable around other men with whom he often confides, raising suspicions of the female employees who think he hates them and favors us.

Pauly and I are closest to Bob, with me even closer. We’ve smoked pot together and gotten drunk with him, even gone hiking together.

So, some of us looked forward to his party to see just how he would react to the stripper. More than 40 of us showed up for that reason, more than to wish him good luck.

At some point around 8 p.m., the organizers snuck the stripper through the back door of the Belleville store.

They sat Bob down in a chair, when out of the bathroom came someone dressed like a gorilla, handing out bananas to the guests.

When she finally started to strip, Bob’s face went vivid red, although he could not hide the lecherous look.

I got embarrassed and left. Reports later said Bob got rather gross after that, posing with the stripper in a variety of perverted poses as everybody took pictures, using these as proof as to which side of the sexual fence Bob landed on.


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